Seeing the people that are happy to ruin someone else’s life because they were bullied by them a decade ago…goes to show you no one can ever forgive. Just animals the lot of ya…people change, maybe give them a chance.
As someone who was bullied, and who still has flashbacks and triggers from it… Yeah I would try to forgive them, but I’m not going to feel bad about delivering some consequences.
Like I’m glad that you grew as a person but the injured party should decide if the person who inflicted the injury gets a free pass. And either way they’re 100% correct.
There’s a mixing context though. If they’re unapologetic (before needing something) about it? Fuck em. If they’ve made amends and then you just do happen to be in a position of power? _That’s_when forgiveness is appropriate.
Seeing the people that are happy to ruin someone else’s life because they were bullied by them a decade ago…goes to show you no one can ever forgive. Just animals the lot of ya…people change, maybe give them a chance.
As someone who was bullied, and who still has flashbacks and triggers from it… Yeah I would try to forgive them, but I’m not going to feel bad about delivering some consequences.
Like I’m glad that you grew as a person but the injured party should decide if the person who inflicted the injury gets a free pass. And either way they’re 100% correct.
I suspect the story in the tweet is fake so probably don’t need to worry about the wellbeing of this hypothetical teacher.
There’s a mixing context though. If they’re unapologetic (before needing something) about it? Fuck em. If they’ve made amends and then you just do happen to be in a position of power? _That’s_when forgiveness is appropriate.
Animals forgive
My cat certainly seems to have forgiven me for all the times I made him move, at least.
He’s playing the long game, he’ll feast on your corpse after he suffocates you in your sleep.
Some people deserve forgiveness, some do not.
I think we all cheer because we interject the ones we know that do not deserve forgiveness.