Just a fun little ice breaker (selfishly so for my sake)
What’s your biggest kink (or current kink), and whats one you just dont understand how people are into it? On the complete opposite side, what’s something that would immediately make you walk away from an encounter?
For me, I’m currently really into breeding. Every single bent over breeding post has me so ready to bust.
On the other hand, I still can’t for the life of me get into feet. I’ve tried. I really have. They don’t actually disgust me, but it doesn’t click for me. They’re just there. Fun for tickling and nice to be kind and massage, but that’s all.
What turns me off? Well honestly not much, but I think sounding would literally kill me. Please don’t stick anything up there or even play around. Ouch
Nobody likes feet.
People pay camgirls for feet stuff to feel superior, or have the feeling that somebody is subservient to them.
Getting them to sexualize feet is a way to do that
I’m into power play mostly, being told what to do by someone who gets off on that; CNC but again only with someone who gets off on it. Light sexual masochist too, some pain really turns me on and it’s something I include while doing myself, but partnered, again it doesn’t work as well if someone seems to be doing it for me, rather than being into it.
I don’t understand well the other side of any of that, it would turn me right off to force someone, I might could hurt them if they asked and were obviously enjoying it but it would not turn me on.
Think I have the regular hard limits, except for strap-ons, which I have an immediate aversion to well beyond what I think is reasonable. I will not do that for anybody ever.
Breeding as a kink always makes me laugh because reproduction is the original purpose of sex and everything else is kinkier! But I agree it is really hot.
I struggle with the flip side of that as well. I really really really need there to be clear boundaries for me to enjoy it. I’ve had good boundaries and really good communication before, and it turned out to be one of my best experiences. But that is far and few between.
Strap on does seem intimidating for sure!
Breeding is funny if you think too hard about it, but I like to look at it as a return to our more animalistic instincts. My dumb animal brain loves it!
Cumshots is my kink and always has been since I saw my first one, the messier the better
I don’t understand people who like pubes, especially on women, they just completely ruing the aesthetic
Ick: anything toilet related, or involving pain.
Pubes are fun. If you’re in to cum shots, dark pubes make for good contrast. And when it dries, it makes the area sticky. A reminder of what made it that way.
A wild, unkept, pubic area can be messy, make personal hygiene more complicated and even be uncomfortable. A well kept is a treat for the eye.
Bare does facilitate oral but I like the musty odor that clings to the hair. Pheronomes are still a thing for humans, just really underplayed.
Who doesn’t love a good messy cumshot? I know I like producing them!
Not trying to imply anything here, but I felt similarly when I was younger about pubes. As I grew older, I realized I didn’t care most of the time. But if the mood strikes me, I might prefer one or the other in the moment
Can I start by commenting on your post first? You give a lot to start the conversation.
Feet. It’s not a kink, per se, to me, but I had a girlfriend give me a foot job, unprompted and it was an amazing experience. First was the distance between us. I couldn’t exactly reach her - besides her feet - so all that was left was eye contact, verbal communication and body language. Second it was the mechanics of the act itself; it takes dexterity. Third, it was the act itself: it is unusual, it is awkward but it can become really fun. Fourth, it is the skin texture. No amount of foot cream can make feet as soft as hands. She skin is thicker, denser. All together, makes for a fun experience. It’s not really about the feet, in my view, but still.
Breeding… been there, done that. Touches very basic and primal instincts. Can be really fun, if people trust each other.
Now for me…
Current kinks. I really can’t put a finger on it. Pornography stopped working for me a long time ago. I still enjoy erotica, though.
What just cuts me off is age gap and degradation.
I super appreciate your response, I’ve asked a few people in the past and I’ve never got as good as an explanation as that. I think it’s made me realize I’ve moved into being down for a foot job, but still don’t find feet enticing.
Erotica works for me, depending on how it’s written. I’ve read some reaaally bad posts before on reddit. Genuine creeps, not just your good ol fashion perv like me haha
Age gap as in illegal? Or just like 20yr old w/ a 50yr old? The former definitely not. That’s gross. But I’m kinda okay with the latter. Really depends.
I think we can agree that underage is by default a crime, so that is that.
Anything more than a couple of years between partners throws me off. Even if was for the sake of a one night stand, it does not work for me. A long term commited relationship makes it even worse.
Writing good erotica is tricky. I should know; I try to do it myself. There is a very thin line between being graphic but only enticing and being graphical and dirty. Reddit was not a good source. Here, what I have found is mostly AI slop.
Feet are not supposed to be the relevant part. The person to which they are attached, yes. The following is to much information but my partner loves to tease me when approaching her from behind for an on all fours romp. My bits are just on the right place for a passing caress before conecting. It’s not the feet: it’s what she uses her feet for.
Im as kink friendly as it gets. But scat is off the menu, period.
There’s plenty of stuff that I don’t or won’t participate in as a receiver, like sounding as an example, but it doesn’t bother me at all to see. But if there’s scat play going on, I’m out. Don’t want to even see it, much less smell it or hear it.
My own kinks run towards bdsm. Predominantly dominance play, bondage, and pain. I’m dominant, and being tied up isn’t interesting to me, but I enjoy pain for myself, though not all types in all situations.
My preference is for gentle domination rather than aggressive or demeaning, though I can do that. I just really enjoy the process of taking a partner deeper into the sensation of giving up control, sinking into the pleasure of pain. To me, the most fun way of getting there is slow, gradual, and in a way that’s more a seduction into the darkness than a push. Even using floggers and whips, I like to build up, layer sensations and types of pain until the sub gets pulled under by their own mind rather than being overwhelmed from the outside.
If that’s done while the sub is tied up, be it as simple as wrist cuffs, or as complex as a suspension, all the better. I like them knowing they could be free, if they asked for it, and getting right to the edge where they might safe word out, but don’t want to because there’s still more to experience.
But, when I’m in the mood to receive sensation, take pain, part of my enjoyment is in not needing the restraint. It’s pushing myself to my own boundaries that does it for me. I want something I can grab to keep myself stable, but that I can’t rely on keeping me upright. If I fall, I want to fall, not just hang there, if that makes sense.
I prefer to top women, but have topped men as well. It’s less sexual with men, since I’m not attracted to them, but when the sub needs some degree of sexual activity, I can manage to do it. I can usually rely on the dominance play to give enough arousal to give them what they need, if they do need it to be sexual. A few times, back in my younger days when I was still active in the local scene, I needed a woman partner involved if a man wanted some kind of sexual interaction as part of the scene, and I definitely performed better with a woman involved.
To me, there wasn’t much difference in my own enjoyment between topping a man my way, and topping a woman that preferred very hard methods, or wanted a fast ramp up in force. Sure, I didn’t and don’t enjoy men, and I do enjoy women, but my preference for my style of dominance and pain is more enjoyable than other ways of doing things. It’s one of those “at least I’m playing at all” kind of things.
And I definitely enjoy pleasing someone that’s a long term partner any way they need. But when you’re playing with people at a party or small gathering, it isn’t always going to be your actual partner, and it’s still fun to play when single, so applying sometimes you work outside your preferences
Me and my wife play together, but we stay monogamous unless it’s a very special occasion.
I feel like I’ve gone vanilla following a recent breakup, so the closest thing to a kink I have is a fascination with twinks and maybe also femboys in their mid 40s. The latter one seems to be an acquired taste.
I understand bears in terms of there being a gene that makes people like facial hair. I’m not into so much masculinity so I can’t personally relate.
As for icks, I have tried sounding and found it painful, which made me ask my partner to go harder to sort of push through to CNC territory, but she wasn’t that hardcore. Now, honestly, I think cisgendered and 100% cis-passing women are among my icks. Not really into femininity unless I can see a dick.
Funny you mention that. I have absolutely no standards for women. None. Doesn’t matter. But on the other side of things, I do not like bears. Just doesn’t do it for me.
The twinks though? 😈
I’m pretty 😈 for twinks as well. 🤤 Too bad so many are like 20 and (understandably) not into me.
Well, despite the name, I enjoy quite a few things
I’m a pleasure-Dom first and foremost
Like you, I can’t get into the feet thing. It doesn’t repulse me, but I just don’t get it
I’ve made some sounding-adjacent content, but it’s performative rather than actually something that gets me off. And the sillier things are definitely just for a laugh, because I’m concentrating on not damaging myself!
Sounding adjacent? Sounds also not fun to me haha, but I’m sure your audience enjoys you being silly.
On other platforms I have quite a few fans
I like power dynamics and having my partner decide how I look, behave, and have sex with him. That’s my main kink and it branches off into more specific things I’m willing to do to make him happy.
Things I’m not into at all that are hard limits include the usual extremes (scat, blood, etc.), and any type of age or animal related roleplay. I also don’t involve anyone but my partner in sex, so no group or public activities.
How did you fall into that dynamic? Naturally, or did your or partner request it?