Just a fun little ice breaker (selfishly so for my sake)

What’s your biggest kink (or current kink), and whats one you just dont understand how people are into it? On the complete opposite side, what’s something that would immediately make you walk away from an encounter?

For me, I’m currently really into breeding. Every single bent over breeding post has me so ready to bust.

On the other hand, I still can’t for the life of me get into feet. I’ve tried. I really have. They don’t actually disgust me, but it doesn’t click for me. They’re just there. Fun for tickling and nice to be kind and massage, but that’s all.

What turns me off? Well honestly not much, but I think sounding would literally kill me. Please don’t stick anything up there or even play around. Ouch

  • RBWellsV23@lemmynsfw.comEnglish
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    18 hours ago

    I’m into power play mostly, being told what to do by someone who gets off on that; CNC but again only with someone who gets off on it. Light sexual masochist too, some pain really turns me on and it’s something I include while doing myself, but partnered, again it doesn’t work as well if someone seems to be doing it for me, rather than being into it.

    I don’t understand well the other side of any of that, it would turn me right off to force someone, I might could hurt them if they asked and were obviously enjoying it but it would not turn me on.

    Think I have the regular hard limits, except for strap-ons, which I have an immediate aversion to well beyond what I think is reasonable. I will not do that for anybody ever.

    Breeding as a kink always makes me laugh because reproduction is the original purpose of sex and everything else is kinkier! But I agree it is really hot.

    • IsThisANick@lemmy.worldOPEnglish
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      7 hours ago

      I struggle with the flip side of that as well. I really really really need there to be clear boundaries for me to enjoy it. I’ve had good boundaries and really good communication before, and it turned out to be one of my best experiences. But that is far and few between.

      Strap on does seem intimidating for sure!

      Breeding is funny if you think too hard about it, but I like to look at it as a return to our more animalistic instincts. My dumb animal brain loves it!