Ugh yeah, when I messaged a trans woman online dating shed usually heavily stress she was trans because she was so used to women bailing. It’s so disappointing.

Yay! Glad you’re here lemmy daddy 😊

These are really valid questions! I’m a fiercely pro dad woman, and I’ll try to answer. IME people’s relationship with their dad tends to be different to their mom, they’re two different roles and two different people. IME people tend to go to dad for practical stuff (financial advice, DIY, moving things etc) and mom for home based practical and lengthy emotional discussions. Dad will also do emotional stuff, but often different style eg pep talks. For protection stuff, IME people go to dad.

Yes I love and miss my dad very much. A good person accepts mistakes, no matter what their role. And you can always go to a good parent cos they’re always safe.

I’m sorry you didnt get the dad all children deserve. Have you found !dadforaminute@lemmy.world People post when they need dad style advice or a hug.

Thanks otp, unfortunately I struggle to read text on lemmy coloured backgrounds. Writing is also just going to unavoidably foil me sometimes. Please bear in mind, the way written language developed is neurotypical, and so not how my brain is wired. If everyone’s brain was wired like me, written language would have developed differently. It isn’t as simple as learning linguistic rules… if it was, I’d have done that years ago.

It’s my favourite community! The dads here can’t do enough for you, they’re always here with fatherly advice, big hugs and kind words. They’re 100% LGBT positive as well, and the mod is really inclusive. Speaking to other people, there’s many posters that get a lot from reading the posts, they just don’t want to open up themselves. Here just existing REALLY helps people.

No of course it wasn’t drag queen’s that’s ridiculous. It was caused by trans women using a public women’s bathroom.

Thanks daddy! See you next weekend for family BBQ… don’t go mad with the ribs again haha

Nobody’s perfect but you’ll always be my brilliant daddy. I hope you have a truly wonderful fathers day ❤️

Those are great points! If nothing people should pick the version of the flag that’s right for them. Self identification is crucial!

Totally agree. They’re being very open that s3 is going to be all about Abbie, I can’t see people engaging well with that. Things are pointing to this going the way of Westworld…starting sensational, gradually becoming shit.

Yep I’m neurodiverse I do that sometimes. Please don’t comment on my symptoms in future, it isn’t very nice for me. Thanks for understanding ♥️

Yep that goes without saying. He’s definitely a DA perp, and he’s incredibly dangerous.

Lone actor grievance fuelled violence is no joke. It’s linked to racism, misogyny, anti LGBT and basically all the hatred. They’re fucking dangerous and it feels like they’re on the rise. A recent Uk case is here

He’s a fucking psychopath. As in, he literally shows warning signs for anti social personality disorder. Obviously I’m not qualified to diagnose him, but that doesn’t mean my fear isn’t real

This is a totally unfair and inaccurate comment. He already tore apart democracy when he deliberately incited jan 6th. Please give the megalomaniac appropriate credit in future

Thanks lemmy dad I needed that

Really daddy? Sometimes I feel I let you down

Came here to say this!

I’m a single mom to 2 kitties so I’m doing the work of 2 parents!

I’m sorry your friend rejected you like that, wtf would THAT be something to end a friendship over? It’s bigoted and awful. The terf activist sounds awful, how horrible it must feel to be so filled with hate. Nice plan with the stickers!