Pick better men but be perfect at it and never accidentally turn down a good dude. Just, be the perfect middle at all times, or you deserve whatever bad thing happens to you. Wear makeup but don’t care about makeup or look like you’re wearing it. If you can’t get a raise, it’s because you’re not being assertive, but if you don’t assert yourself perfectly, you’re a bitch who doesn’t deserve a raise or a job. Etc, etc. It’s that same tightrope and if you can’t walk it, no one will give you a hand when you fall.
Pick better men but be perfect at it and never accidentally turn down a good dude. Just, be the perfect middle at all times, or you deserve whatever bad thing happens to you. Wear makeup but don’t care about makeup or look like you’re wearing it. If you can’t get a raise, it’s because you’re not being assertive, but if you don’t assert yourself perfectly, you’re a bitch who doesn’t deserve a raise or a job. Etc, etc. It’s that same tightrope and if you can’t walk it, no one will give you a hand when you fall.