For every woman that would overlook you for the size of your penis, which is totally in the middle of the bell curve and nothing to be discouraged about, there are 5 other women in the world that look just as good as they do and who would love to take a ride on your baloney pony.

I’m right about the same, a little longer, a little thinner, and I had crippling sexual anxiety for years because of it.

I learned the techniques for orgasm control and have frequently made love to women for over an hour at a time, multiple times a day until they tapped out on the regular because they couldn’t take any more orgasms for a while.

I’ve had twelve partners and only once was I unable to make my partner orgasm with penile stimulation alone, and she was on antidepressants that made it difficult for her to orgasm at all, but she still wanted to sleep with me because it was enjoyable and pleasurable for her.

I have been called a sex god by two separate women in my life.

And despite all of that I carried that inner worry that the size of my penis was simply not good enough and that there was nothing I could do about it.

Literally two weeks ago, it clicked in my head, and if you keep studying yourself and learning from yourself it will click with you, that is absolutely not about the size of your penis. Its about the passion, the intimacy, the self confidence, the drive, the connection, and the ability to read your partner and respond and react in ways to make the whole event more than just the hokey pokey.

Sure, some women will only be satisfied with big dicks. And that sucks.

Some women can’t even take our dicks due to things like vaginisimus and deep sexual and emotional scars.

But women have those same worries and concerns about their own bodies, wondering if the guy they’re talking to prefers bigger or smaller boobs or butts than they have, wondering if they are tight enough or if they smell good down there or if the bit of cellulite or various moles or whatever blemish they can amplify about themselves means they are unworthy of being loved.

And given that a woman who likes a guy will put up with an inordinate amount of bullshit from the guy, seeing our flaws as cute quirks and laughing at our bad jokes just because they like us and want to be liked by us, if you reach the point where you are sleeping with a woman and you are romantic, present, involved, and consistently able to make her cum and enjoy herself like clockwork, she’ll never hate you for your penis any more than you would hate her for having one boob smaller than the other or for having a large labia or any of the dozens of other things every woman finds to dislike about their own bodies.

That’s average lil bro.

All the people telling you you are average, are right. That’s within normal.

That said, in case someone smaller is reading this, knowing what you are doing and building rapport are WAY more important than size. You can make a lady cum with just your mouth on her nipples if she’s ready for it. I know because I’ve done it. You don’t need to even be average size for PIV sex to be good. Think about the most basic method for masturbation for a woman. It’s not her fist; it’s her two middle fingers, in or out. If you are at least the size of two feminine fingers, you’re probably already fine. And the very existence of small penises suggests their owners have sex. How else do you get the next generation?

And, finally, if you get unluck squared, and happen to get together with a gal who needs something big while you are not, there is a world of delights to explore. Any sensible woman will know a big insertable is much easier to find than a good partner.

That’s not small. It’s perfect for most.

That’s literally around the average.

If it seems smaller, try losing weight. Getting skinny makes even a 3 inch dick look big. If you’re just tall… 🤷🏻‍♂️

You sounds actually pretty average

Also, in my experience most women aren’t really into huge members

Your dick is solidly average. Like mine. Porn dicks are large mainly because it’s easier to get good camera angles without the actors getting in the way. Same with longer than average tongues. Unfortunate side effect is it gives most guys unrealistic expectations of what women like.

2 things that will make you bigger (but no, not porn star big).

1, use it. The more you use it, the more you’ll gain. Exercise. It won’t be much, maybe 1/4 inch or so length and girth. But stroke that big boy! 2. Lose weight if you can. The fat down in that area will hide some of it around the base.

To make it look bigger, shave it. All of it. Balls too. The hair hides a lot. Especially the hair growing in the shaft.

I’ve never been with a woman who was unsatisfied with my size.

Vagina nerve endings are mostly around two to three inches deep, beyond that not too much feelings.

5.8” is more than sufficient. Girth matters more, and your girth is fine too.

I’ve taken enough cocks to have a statistically significant sample size, and you are perfectly average, even slightly larger than average. Even as someone who is a little bit of “size queen” - that is tbh mostly masochism on my end, and your cock would be totally fine to most vaginas.

Women in general aren’t super into size anyway. A vagina doesn’t typically cum from penetration, just clitoral stimulation.

Women tend to be more “psychological” in their pleasure too. I’ve noticed a huge difference in what feels good when I’m late on my t shot tbh

We’ll join in on the chorus, this is a very much average size. Porn fucks us up much more than we’d all like, and skews expectations. However, in reality, really big dicks can hurt a lot, and only a fraction of people are actually wanting that. No matter your size (and we mean it), what’s important is how you care for a partner, using your entire body to please theirs. Sex is a wonderfully thing, and it’s about the mental and physically connections you build. Wanting the other to get the most pleasure is actually what often gets you the most in return :)

Edited to add : if you want to boost your confidence somewhat, two things that can make your dick look a bit bigger is losing weight, and trimming/shaving the pubic har at the basis of the shaft

You are above average. It is more than enough to satisfy us.

Give up, go to glory holes and present your anus for the taking

Learn how to give great oral.

Bruv. You are perfectly okay. Porn dicks make women run away.

Your member will satisfy anyone and won’t hurt them so they can come back for more.

Pussies are sensitive and need lube and licking. Pounding big dicks into that space can cause serious pain and hurt.

You are perfectly okay to satisfy anyone you want to

Small dicks get blowjobs