Hello everyone (27M) here I was always curious about the size of my dick but I never measured it in the past because I was too scared to find out if I have a small dick or not. But now I decided to finally measure my dick and the I’m very sad now because the length of my dick is only 5.8 inches and the grith of my dick is only 5.5 inches I’m not circumcised by way.

so I’m looking for advice on how I can cope with the fact that I will never be able sexually satisfy any woman with my little member.

  • freeusething@lemmynsfw.com
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    7 hours ago

    Vagina nerve endings are mostly around two to three inches deep, beyond that not too much feelings.

    5.8” is more than sufficient. Girth matters more, and your girth is fine too.

    I’ve taken enough cocks to have a statistically significant sample size, and you are perfectly average, even slightly larger than average. Even as someone who is a little bit of “size queen” - that is tbh mostly masochism on my end, and your cock would be totally fine to most vaginas.

    Women in general aren’t super into size anyway. A vagina doesn’t typically cum from penetration, just clitoral stimulation.

    Women tend to be more “psychological” in their pleasure too. I’ve noticed a huge difference in what feels good when I’m late on my t shot tbh

  • Jobesmith92@lemmynsfw.com
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    2 days ago

    Your dick is solidly average. Like mine. Porn dicks are large mainly because it’s easier to get good camera angles without the actors getting in the way. Same with longer than average tongues. Unfortunate side effect is it gives most guys unrealistic expectations of what women like.

    2 things that will make you bigger (but no, not porn star big).

    1, use it. The more you use it, the more you’ll gain. Exercise. It won’t be much, maybe 1/4 inch or so length and girth. But stroke that big boy! 2. Lose weight if you can. The fat down in that area will hide some of it around the base.

    To make it look bigger, shave it. All of it. Balls too. The hair hides a lot. Especially the hair growing in the shaft.

    I’ve never been with a woman who was unsatisfied with my size.

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    2 days ago

    All the people telling you you are average, are right. That’s within normal.

    That said, in case someone smaller is reading this, knowing what you are doing and building rapport are WAY more important than size. You can make a lady cum with just your mouth on her nipples if she’s ready for it. I know because I’ve done it. You don’t need to even be average size for PIV sex to be good. Think about the most basic method for masturbation for a woman. It’s not her fist; it’s her two middle fingers, in or out. If you are at least the size of two feminine fingers, you’re probably already fine. And the very existence of small penises suggests their owners have sex. How else do you get the next generation?

    And, finally, if you get unluck squared, and happen to get together with a gal who needs something big while you are not, there is a world of delights to explore. Any sensible woman will know a big insertable is much easier to find than a good partner.

  • PM_me_ass_n_puss@lemmynsfw.com
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    2 days ago

    We’ll join in on the chorus, this is a very much average size. Porn fucks us up much more than we’d all like, and skews expectations. However, in reality, really big dicks can hurt a lot, and only a fraction of people are actually wanting that. No matter your size (and we mean it), what’s important is how you care for a partner, using your entire body to please theirs. Sex is a wonderfully thing, and it’s about the mental and physically connections you build. Wanting the other to get the most pleasure is actually what often gets you the most in return :)

    Edited to add : if you want to boost your confidence somewhat, two things that can make your dick look a bit bigger is losing weight, and trimming/shaving the pubic har at the basis of the shaft

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      2 days ago

      using your entire body to please theirs

      This is huge!

      Too many guys with big dicks think that their dick is enough

      The opposite is true

      It’s vital that you take your time, give pleasure in all the ways possible and be very, very gentle and aware

  • Phoenixz@lemmy.ca
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    2 days ago

    You sounds actually pretty average

    Also, in my experience most women aren’t really into huge members

  • dugmeup@lemmynsfw.com
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    2 days ago

    Bruv. You are perfectly okay. Porn dicks make women run away.

    Your member will satisfy anyone and won’t hurt them so they can come back for more.

    Pussies are sensitive and need lube and licking. Pounding big dicks into that space can cause serious pain and hurt.

    You are perfectly okay to satisfy anyone you want to