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  • MonkyhandstoMad og drikke[2025-04-17] Madtorsdag
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    9 days ago

    Jeg har tænkt mig at overbevise min mand om at han skal lave sin egg curry i dag eller imorgen. Tænker det er meget påske-relateret med en ægge-ret. Plus, det er en af mine favorit-retter han laver.

    Og så har jeg en plan om at spise min kropsvægt i chokolade.

    Hvad spiser I andre til påske?


  • MonkyhandstoMemes@lemmy.mlIt's Women's Fault
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    13 days ago

    Women aren’t a monolith, just as men aren’t. There are women who will appreciate your emotional openness, especially if you are able to regulate and communicate those emotions in a healthy way.

    Edit to add: my relationship to my husband has only grown deeper as he has learnt to better access and express his emotions. In particular, he is working on accessing emotions other than anger, and this has really helped us grow our connection.






  • There is nothing magical about a 7 day week that means you have to fit your programming to it.

    I do a kind of modified PPL, effectively PLPL, because strong legs is a priority to me. So it’s a 4 day split. I usually train 6 days a week, but sometimes 5, sometimes 7.

    So in a given week I may hit my glutes and hamstrings once, but back twice. Next week would be opposite. Over the course of a month or longer, it evens out, and I get plenty of frequency in for each body part.


  • Vi har en del af vores team i Bangkok, de blev evakueret fra kontoret på 19. etage.

    Min ene kollega var gravid, skulle starte barsel på mandag. Men 19 etagers trapper sætter åbenbart fødsel i gang! Og på grund af total trafik kaos kunne de hverken få taxa eller ambulance, så hendes kæreste måtte samle hende op og køre hende til hospitalet på scooter.

    Heldigvis er både mor og søn sunde og raske. Men en vild dag.


  • I have been on a nostalgia kick, listening to mostly 90s punk. Turns out a lot of songs written during the Bush era feel highly relevant now (ex NOFX, Bad Religion, Rancid, Social Distortion, Dropkick Murphy’s, Choking Victim, among others).

    This also lead me to looking into other related bands that I didn’t listen to before. Currently I am really enjoying discovering the back catalogue and new releases of both Rise Against and Propagandhi.


  • I am in a long term relationship, so I’m not walking around looking for options. However, I am in my mid-forties, and I genuinely find people (of any gender) around my own age the most attractive, including on a purely physical level.

    Anyone younger than mid-thirties or so just look like children (not literally, but it’s the best analogy I can think of). I don’t find them physically appealing. I obviously cannot say if this will continue to be the case as I get older, but as of right now, it’s true.



  • Obviously, don’t try to do much at once :) But as a woman in your forties, resistance training is highly recommended! It’s a great way to ensure functional fitness, and it’s the best protection against developing osteoporosis as we head into peri-menopause and beyond.

    So, if you are able to add that in, it will definitely be worthwhile.


  • Congrats! This is awesome. As someone who was in this place a few years back, I can honestly say that your future self will thank you for sticking with this.

    About 5 years ago, I started working out consistently, and it’s the best thing I’ve done for myself in a really long time. Once it became a habit, I missed working out if I couldn’t make it for a few days. I crave it now. I am in my mid-forties now, but I’m fitter than I was for most of my thirties, and I have more energy for things.

    So great job for getting active again, and stick with it! You will be so happy you did.



  • MonkyhandstoFeddit.dkHvad har i andre gang i for tiden?
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    1 month ago

    Man kan måske godt putte det i en kasse med administrativt arbejde, hvis man ser meget overordnet på det.

    Jeg har altid være glad for strategi, planlægning, og operationalisering af disse. Altså, alt omkring organisations-styrelse interesserer mig tror jeg. Jeg sidder ikke og administrerer papirarbejde de fleste dage, ihvertfald ikke på sådan en måde hvor det er den samme rutine handling igen og igen osv.

    Jeg bruger nok mest tid på at formidle information og forbinde forskellige dele af organisationen. Min rolle er at sørge for at vi forstår vores business processes godt, så vi kan levere software systemer der løser reelle problemer i organisationen, og forhåbentlig gør at vores brugere har nemmere ved at levere deres arbejde.

    Anyway, der er ting ved det der kan være frustrerende. Men det har aldrig været kedeligt. Det hjælper også at det er en international organisation måske, så vores brugere er spredt over hele verden, hvilket nogen gange giver interessante udfordringer - jeg har altid være glad for at arbejde med en international fokus. Mit nuværende projekt er en pilot/ test implementering med blandt andet vores kontorer i Japan, Thailand, Sydsudan, Somalia, Etiopien, Panama og Mexico for eks.


  • Ja, jeg bruger det meste af min dag foran en computer 😃 meget af den tid er i møder og opkald.

    Jeg er ikke ‘teknisk’ i forhold til de software projekter jeg har arbejdet med de sidste mange år - men man kan sige jeg er forbindelsen mellem vores tekniske teams og vore business end-users, hvis det giver mening?



  • MonkyhandstoFeddit.dkHvad har i andre gang i for tiden?
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    I øjeblikket arbejder jeg med programme management og change management, for tech projekter, men i den humanitære sektor.

    Jeg ved egentlig ikke om det skal være det samme. Jeg har tidligere været mere i strategy, det kunne jeg måske bedre lide i virkeligheden? Ved heller ikke om det skal være tech stadig, men samtidig er det jo bedst at søge hvor jeg har noget relevant erfaring, hvis jeg gerne vil finde noget.

    Jeg ville helst blive i den humanitære sektor, men der er virkelig ikke mange jobs nu om dage, så det er nok ikke sandsynligt.