Hi all, I just created this group so we could have a safe space sex discussion and advice group similar to the /r/sex subreddit.
I figured I could get the ball rolling with this post.
How do you feel about discussing your private sex life with your friends or coworkers? Personally if a friend brings something up I will usually answer without going into too many details. I don’t really say anything that I wouldn’t say in front of my partner, but don’t mind healthy discussion or the occasional joke. I do have friends that overshare, and friends that won’t discuss their sex lives at all. I know I wouldn’t mind if my wife shared some general details but I would be extremely uncomfortable if she shared any intimate details or preferences in the bedroom. Oddly, myself and my wife both find sharing anonymous details on the internet perfectly fine.
How does the community feel about this topic?
If someone starts being very open about hi’s/her’s sex life, then yes, I start being open as well. I usually don’t start first… unless I’m drunk or high, lol.
Though I have to admit that this openness can lead to unpredictable things happening between people (I’ve had it happen a few times), like you end up hooking up, which is fine if you’re single and all that, but not if you’re not, so I’d suggest not to actually do that if you’re not single. Just switch subjects and the other person should understand that you’re not really interested in talking about that.