• tetris11@lemmy.ml
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    I can hold this position for a minute, tops. Any longer and those gates are getting rammed through

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    Anybody else have the opposite problem when on antidepressants?

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      Oh shit lmao. Haven’t been on antidepressants for a few years but same as the other guy started having sex afterwards and just had the most difficult time actually getting off. The girl I was with was super self conscious about it, I felt pretty bad. Ironic.

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      Oh fuck, is it my antidepressants? I only started having sex after treating my depression. I can orgasm by myself but with my girlfriend its real difficult. The sex feels great though.

      Do you experience the same?

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        It was, yes (no longer on). Everything else was fine but I just couldn’t “get there”.

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        Some antidepressants really fuck with your libido. So this indeed could be your problem, although you being able to orgasm by yourself doesn’t match what I’ve heard.
        Without trying to sound rude, I’ve been there myself: This could also be caused by excessive porn consumption and having your brain being wired in a way in which masturbation works well and sex being difficult for orgasming, despite feeling good.

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        For me Prozac basically made it impossible to get hard, it was brutal and lead to some awkward moments. Other antidepressants are better but lots have the same possibilities.

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    I’m not 100% sure, but you’d have to last 22 minutes if you speed run. 35 or so if you’re there for the pre-fun, in the Helms Deep battle scene.