I had a female partner who loved to post nudes on image hosting sites etc. it really got her off. I admired her self confidence and bravery. Which in turn got me off. I could never get myself to do it, but had respect for those that could. Like they were on another level sexually or something.
Like, hey there… look at this, and let it make you feel something.
I’ts more popular today than ever, but I feel like the introduction of money for content changed everything. Im not judging the concept, people gotta pay bills. But it seems to have drowned out the ones who used to do it for their own pleasure. For the thrill.
I think you hit the nail on the head. There are people who would post it for the thrill, but it’s been said many times before “If you’re good at something, never do it for free”. So why give out nudes for free when you can make money from it?
Granted if people would pay to see my dick I would most likely charge for it. That being said, personally as a viewer I find it far less arousing the moment I find out it’s for money. In my mind it, which could be a complete misconception, it removes the element of pleasure that the poser gets from it. I only have my ex as a reference but she just loved that men would be ogling her naked body. That was the payoff, which to me was very unique and sexy and confident.
Humans are complicated creatures. We’re capable of holding duel opposing views on something at once.
Indeed we are, I find it so fascinating how so many of us hide our true sexuality and desires. Everyone out here pretending that sex is not top 3 priorities of every day since puberty lol.