I’m looking for a new instance since lemm.ee is closing by the end of the month. What’s a good instance to be on these days?

I’m looking for a instance with the fewest trolls, bots, and anyone that likes to take things to the extremes.

    • doctortran@lemm.eeEnglish
      9·
      9 hours ago

      Problem isn’t so much defederation policy in and of itself, as much as it is just the general level-headedness of the admins

      Lemm.ee’s lead admin had exactly the type of philosophy towards managing this platform that I want to see in wherever I go next.

      This post alone is what convinced me to create a primary account there. It’s professional, level-headed, nuanced, well spoken, and you can tell they’ve actually thought a lot about the big picture in an unbiased way. Not aggressive, preachy, standoffish, snarky, snobbish, and above all, not reactionary. Seeing the instance as infrastructure is what I want to see more of, but I also just want to see admins with this attitude overall.

      • db0@lemmy.dbzer0.comEnglish
        91·
        9 hours ago

        Unfortunately that philosophy led them to close down their instance due to burnout, so maybe it’s not exactly a winning one 😅

        • Geth@lemmy.dbzer0.comEnglish
          1·
          2 hours ago

          I beg you, please take care of yourself if it’s needed, take time off, relax, get help from others. I think you have a philosophy to not take money out of the donations, but speaking as one of the contributors, I think that’s unfair considering the amount of work you put in.

          What I’m saying is just do what it takes to not let it lead to burnout. I don’t think anyone that understands the value of this instance would mind.

      • hendrik@palaver.p3x.deEnglish
        2·
        10 hours ago

        Fingers crossed, but we also know Lemmy might not be ready for that type of philosophy. I mean I still don’t know what exactly happened, but lemm.ee wasn’t successful in the end. And the underlying issues are still there. So the next admin team might face the same dynamics.

    • lemmyingly@lemm.eeOPEnglish
      82·
      13 hours ago

      Any website or service that utilizes the .zip TLD 🤮🤮

      I’m sure there are great websites and services that utilize it, but I have a strong opinion that the TLD should have never been put out there for people to use. I block all .zip TLD domains with no exceptions; and so unfortunately, I cannot use lemmy.zip.

      To be fair, I have no real opinions about lemm.ee. It was one of the instances that had the most users when I joined Lemmy, and as far as I’m aware it hasn’t received any real negative press.

      I’m more bothered about seeing or being associated with spam and/or an instance full of toxic people. I’m not a spicy person - or so I’d like to think.

      • fxomt@lemmy.dbzer0.comEnglish
        8·
        12 hours ago

        I’m more bothered about seeing or being associated with spam and/or an instance full of toxic people. I’m not a spicy person - or so I’d like to think.

        Zip’s a very trustworthy instance, all admins know about it; so i doubt anything wrong will happen in that regard 😉

      • tisktisk@piefed.socialEnglish
        6·
        12 hours ago

        is the TLD just aesthetically unpleasing or are there technical issues with zip archive files? Curious to know how one can judge one TLD over others just b/c I’ve never really thought ab it until now

        • ProfessorProteus@lemmy.worldEnglish
          13·
          12 hours ago

          Just gonna pitch in here, but I’m no expert. I was reading people’s reactions when that TLD was introduced, and they raised concerns over the possibility that a bad actor could spoof an address that actually downloads a .zip file to your device when you click the link, even though you may assume it’s an address to a page. No idea what a hypothetical virus could do from a compressed environment, but thats what I remember reading.

          Sorry to any experts if I’m muddying the waters with a dumb take!

        • lemmyingly@lemm.eeOPEnglish
          101·
          11 hours ago

          If you saw ChromeUpdate202506.zip, then what do you believe it is? A downloadable update for Chrome or a website?

          What if a malicious person has purchased that domain and filled the website with something malicious, a virus, an info stealer, etc?

          I block the .zip TLD because the domains can be used maliciously. Within the first few days there were hundreds/thousands of domains registered with names to look like zip files for updating software and the like.

          I also block the .mov TLD for the exact same reason.

          Sure on a good day you can spot the malicious intent from a mile away, but I like to protect for when I’m having a bad day. I also block the TLDs for the whole family as well because unfortunately they’re not as tech savvy or meticulous.

          • dil@piefed.zipEnglish
            2·
            5 hours ago

            could just let only lemmy.zip and piefed.zip through and avoid the issues still