• Dzheyk@lemm.ee
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    2 days ago

    Kinda shocked at all the no answers to this so I suppose I’ll be the first to say, yes…yes I have. When I was much younger, and dumb, and full of ego. Was curious to see what the reaction would be. 🤷 I’ve grown a lot since then.

  • Never.

    In services that allow spicy images, I put them there. Otherwise, only if asked.

    I’m a horny-ass slut, and even I don’t particularly like when the first thing someone sends me is a pic of their junk. Wait til I ask.

  • Treetawps@lemmynsfw.com
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    3 days ago

    Unsolicited no. Once in a conversation where the mood is clearly going in a sexy direction, yes totally. On Lemmy I keep it withing the confines of the correct community and with people once its established that they actually want a pic.

  • Mr_Stellar@lemmynsfw.com
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    3 days ago

    The thrill is in being asked to send… better yet being ordered to send a pic. So I can honestly say no, never unsolicited.

  • zxqwas@lemmy.world
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    3 days ago

    I’m a middle aged man with dubious physique and enough self awareness to not do that.

  • PiecePractical@midwest.social
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    3 days ago

    When I was in my early twenties I was friends with this girl and, we would flirt with the idea of hooking up from time to time (never did though). One night we were texting and I honestly thought she was suggesting that she wanted one from me. I sent it, basically got an “OMG, WTF dude!?” In reply. Eventually, she admitted that she was trying to suggest it but only because she never thought I’d actually send it. At that point we were good friends (very much just friends) and I kinda suspect that she was trying to make me feel better about the whole thing.

    So I guess the answer for me is… kind of?

  • dabw1@lemmynsfw.com
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    4 days ago

    I’ve never sent an unsolicited dick pic. I’ve sent a number of solicited dick pics. Honestly, if a woman asks for one and I’m interested in her, I don’t see why I wouldn’t.

  • lazyneet@programming.dev
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    4 days ago

    Sent? Unsolicited? Never. Received? Hell yeah, and I was going to say I’m warming up to it, but as I type this I just got a couple of not-so-hot dick pics from a stranger on grindr who is possibly a bot, and the depression is back.