• YesButActuallyMaybe@lemmy.ca
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    1 day ago

    Idk dude. I think I flipped a switch and now just playing games doesn’t do it for me because what’s the point really? There’s too many and too many of them are just cash grabs. I can basically only play old or indie games and only if I stream it so that my friend who’s depressed can get some virtual company.

    I don’t regret having spent so much time with games but I guess there’s a time and place.

    • Zoop@beehaw.org
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      15 hours ago

      That’s so sweet and thoughtful of you to stream it for your friend. <3

    • chonglibloodsport@lemmy.world
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      1 day ago

      Yeah. When you start to realize that video games are just success surrogates to help you compensate for a lack of success in real life, it gets depressing fast!

      I did so much gaming in my 20s. Now in my 40s it’s hard to motivate myself to play more than a few minutes!

      • zenforyen@feddit.org
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        20 hours ago

        This.

        I grew out of video gaming the moment I started to realize that games are a manufactured irreality where nothing you do really matters, because once you quit the game you gained nothing in life, it is a well engineered time sink.

        Since my time became a scarce resource and I started to value it, only a rare unique mind twisting puzzle game or short experimental experience might be worth my time, but I will not touch games that eat hundreds of hours of your life for well, nothing at all.

        Also, when I was young and had almost no friends, games were a refuge and distraction, now I don’t need them. If at all, now I’d rather play a board game with other people, because it’s wholesome real world interactions and social fun.