• habitualcynic@lemmy.world
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    19 hours ago

    Can’t we just accept that we are all human beings and likely are all flawed in some way and that even if you don’t see it, your partner is likely sacrificing and having to put up with your shit just like you have to put up with theirs.

    Such a great take. We will all give and take in a relationship, be there and need the other to be there. As soon as one starts feeling like they’re doing all the “put up with”, they need to take a step back, figure out what their needs are, and talk to their partner.

    And separately, a lot of people are just not emotionally intelligent. That’s harder to solve unfortunately.