• Komodo Rodeo@lemmy.world
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    22 hours ago

    Getting real “I told him I wanted a sensitive guy but then he cried and I got the ick” vibes on this one.

    Spot on, I’ve learned the hard way to never trust someone who harangues me about my feelings. If they’re too tactless to make the offer and leave the ball in your court, they can’t be trusted with what you confide in them to begin with. Willingly feeding sensitive information about your feelings is a risky game, it’s important to know whether or not they’re just aping at stock phrases about emotional health beforehand, or actually someone who can be relied upon to give objective support.

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      21 hours ago

      Don’t dorget that they often use it against men in disagreements they aren’t “winning”. I’ve seen a few videos of girls saying that is exactly what they will do if you dare open up to them.