When watching porn i see videos of guys shooting thick ropes. I know porn isn’t an accurate representation of sex but I’ve wondered why i can never “shoot” a load. I’ve tried waiting for a couple days before cumming, edging, cock rings, different diet. The only thing that changes is the volume and consistency. Is there any tips on shooting cum shots as its a huge turn on for me but i cannot do it myself.

  • bendovertherainbow@lemmynsfw.com
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    (porn isn’t real)

    Just wanted to emphasize this statement, as its very important. Porn is a show, its theatrical. That means it can and will include props and visual effects, inclusive of the “cum”.

    Also, people have different anatomy.

    Also really important.

    That said, if it only just dribbles out every time, there is the possibility of a urethral stricture, and it would be good to visit a urologist to get checked out.

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      Ok. But I want to be a little theathrical too. Plain pleasure gets boring, I want to mess around a little…

      …make them wonder where all that cum came from again.

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        Drink more water, exercise (do some kegels, also hip thrusts), eat well and get your vitamins - especially zinc (meats, legumes, nuts) and folic acid (leafy greens, oranges, also legumes!), drop any sugary drinks, do some yoga, etc.

        You’ll definitely have an increase. How much, I couldn’t say.

        Edit: you could also skip that and have some body temp cum-styled lubes I mentioned nearby if that’s more your thing, it would certainly be more theatrical!

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      props and visual effects, inclusive of the “cum”.

      I mean. You can see that it’s a real dick shooting lots of cum. You can also tell when it’s not real. (That very evenly thick, very white stuff that looks like some kind of watered down frosting.)

      But yeah, porn is obviously very selective of actors who can shoot big loads.

      Sometimes they can’t, and I find that kind of fun. Endearing. Makes it a bit more real.

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        You can see that it’s a real dick shooting lots of cum

        Not always! Clever positioning, the right camera angles, extending the scene with a picture of his face and there’s suddenly more on hers, etc.

        And not all of them are obviously fake, there are whole lines of cum-like lubes in use (like spunk hybrid, loadz, sliquid, etc) that have gotten a lot closer, and made the effect much less obvious.

        I’m not saying they all are fakes, like you said they will focus on those who do produce more already, but I’d bet there is a lot more thats fake than you realize.

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          I see.

          I guess the type of stuff I watch doesn’t really lend itself to editing, much. Not a whole lot of “produced” “porn”, so to speak. That stuff is so uninteresting to me.

          More homemade, amateur-ish kind of stuff. That being said, they still tend to shoot a lot, and I’m guessing that’s why they end up being quite popular/front page material.