Just knowing that it is a safe space and talking. Once we reached a point where neither of us felt like the other one would judge, even if we say something very extreme, we just talked and we were both open to try the things that the other wanted at least once.

So not judging or laughing at eachother and just communicating.

I had past relationships that I wasn’t ready yet to not judge myself and they never knew my deepest kinks. But with my current partner I am fully open and it’s nice. I got to try fantasies that I never thought I’d get to.