Not about sex with trans women, but generally about fantasy vs reality. Sometimes things seem great in fantasy but are boring or mundane in reality. And vice versa.
For me (other people’s experiences may differ) some examples are:
Cell-Popping. You heat a needle white hot and hold it over your or your partner’s skin to make the skin cells quickly heat up and burst to create a small superficial wound. Do that in a line or so and you can draw little pictures. It usually doesn’t leave scars so it only lasts for a few days.
I thought it would be super hot. To mark my partner and be marked by them. To endure the pain.
In the end it wasn’t super painful. And sure, the pictures looked nice. But it wasn’t really anything special over just using a pen to doodle something.
On the other hand there was mummification. Encasing someone in seran wrap for example. I thought it would be boring because you could just lie there and do nothing.
Super wrong. It’s intense. When you also wrap ears and eyes you are completely gone from the world. You lose all track of time. It’s almost like being weightless because the wrap also cuts off all feelings from the skin. If you then get just the slightest sensation from your partner, like a touch or a kiss, it is magnified a thousand fold.
Once mummified a girl at a private party. And while she lay there our pizza order arrived and everyone was aflutter with sorting out payment and who got what and she didn’t notice a thing. We brought her back gently and slowly and when she was somewhat coherent presented the pizza to her. In her words: “Best. Aftercare. Ever.”
Not about sex with trans women, but generally about fantasy vs reality. Sometimes things seem great in fantasy but are boring or mundane in reality. And vice versa.
For me (other people’s experiences may differ) some examples are:
Cell-Popping. You heat a needle white hot and hold it over your or your partner’s skin to make the skin cells quickly heat up and burst to create a small superficial wound. Do that in a line or so and you can draw little pictures. It usually doesn’t leave scars so it only lasts for a few days.
I thought it would be super hot. To mark my partner and be marked by them. To endure the pain.
In the end it wasn’t super painful. And sure, the pictures looked nice. But it wasn’t really anything special over just using a pen to doodle something.
On the other hand there was mummification. Encasing someone in seran wrap for example. I thought it would be boring because you could just lie there and do nothing.
Super wrong. It’s intense. When you also wrap ears and eyes you are completely gone from the world. You lose all track of time. It’s almost like being weightless because the wrap also cuts off all feelings from the skin. If you then get just the slightest sensation from your partner, like a touch or a kiss, it is magnified a thousand fold.
Once mummified a girl at a private party. And while she lay there our pizza order arrived and everyone was aflutter with sorting out payment and who got what and she didn’t notice a thing. We brought her back gently and slowly and when she was somewhat coherent presented the pizza to her. In her words: “Best. Aftercare. Ever.”