I’m going to repeat the warning against fetishizing people only here, because the previous warning about that was better than I could say.
But I’ve dated trans women. Had sex with them too.
It wasn’t some kind of fantasy or fetish for me, I just don’t see trans women as anything other than women. I have my preferences, but it’s really more about the connection than anatomy anyway. If I ever had a connection with a man, I’d at least try it out.
Just putting it out there, since you’re asking about sexual stuff rather than romance, there are differences in anatomy between cis and trans women, but there’s differences in anatomy between different cis women, and different trans women. Things feel different when you’re fucking, yeah. But not better or worse. It’s like the differences between getting your dick sucked, fucking a cis vagina, and fucking a cis woman in the ass. You’ll like what you like, and better is subjective.
Trans women aren’t some kind of magic fuck that’s going to change your life. Nobody is a magic fuck like that. So don’t expect your fantasy to compare to reality. You’ve got your head wrapped up in what you think trans women are, and they’re just women. No real woman can match imagination like that, trans or cis.
Also, be fucking respectful. A lot of trans women have issues with their bodies because that’s part of being trans. If you find someone to play fantasy fuckball with you, you treat them like gold. You don’t go around treating their body like a fucking private tour of transness. You make out, you fuck, and don’t be a fucking asshole.
If someone is willing to get sexual with you, and it turns out that the fantasy doesn’t work, that you have some kind of turn off, you be a decent human being. You should do that with anyone agreeing to fuck you, but since whoever it is will be doing you a favor by opening themselves up to being your fetish, you go the extra mile to make sure you respect that.
We all like what we like, and if you don’t like it you shouldn’t fake it, but you can be a gentleman about it. If you can’t, then stay the fuck home and jerk off.
I’m going to repeat the warning against fetishizing people only here, because the previous warning about that was better than I could say.
But I’ve dated trans women. Had sex with them too.
It wasn’t some kind of fantasy or fetish for me, I just don’t see trans women as anything other than women. I have my preferences, but it’s really more about the connection than anatomy anyway. If I ever had a connection with a man, I’d at least try it out.
Just putting it out there, since you’re asking about sexual stuff rather than romance, there are differences in anatomy between cis and trans women, but there’s differences in anatomy between different cis women, and different trans women. Things feel different when you’re fucking, yeah. But not better or worse. It’s like the differences between getting your dick sucked, fucking a cis vagina, and fucking a cis woman in the ass. You’ll like what you like, and better is subjective.
Trans women aren’t some kind of magic fuck that’s going to change your life. Nobody is a magic fuck like that. So don’t expect your fantasy to compare to reality. You’ve got your head wrapped up in what you think trans women are, and they’re just women. No real woman can match imagination like that, trans or cis.
Also, be fucking respectful. A lot of trans women have issues with their bodies because that’s part of being trans. If you find someone to play fantasy fuckball with you, you treat them like gold. You don’t go around treating their body like a fucking private tour of transness. You make out, you fuck, and don’t be a fucking asshole.
If someone is willing to get sexual with you, and it turns out that the fantasy doesn’t work, that you have some kind of turn off, you be a decent human being. You should do that with anyone agreeing to fuck you, but since whoever it is will be doing you a favor by opening themselves up to being your fetish, you go the extra mile to make sure you respect that.
We all like what we like, and if you don’t like it you shouldn’t fake it, but you can be a gentleman about it. If you can’t, then stay the fuck home and jerk off.