What about things like kegels/squeezing?

Mouths are probably pretty different right? More tongue movement, unless you are facefucking.

If you’ve ever participated in something like a train - can you feel the difference between a vagina that has already been fucked?

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        I get that, been there, done that, but you can just say men, it’s fine, it’s not trying to exclude anything.

        I’m really not trying to be exclusive, it’s just that “penis havers” is just… Come on, it’s weird and it doesn’t help. It confuses most people as to what you’re trying to say and diverts from the actual subject. If you really want to include them then who not just say “men and trans women” or something?

        Just my 2cts, not trying to stir anything