Yeah it took me a long time to figure out that submissive is not passive. I fought my own sexuality because I thought it was lazy or not a grown woman kind of sexuality to want to be submissive or to be dominated. I’m egalitarian in the rest of my life, cooperation is the name of the game.
And I am not passive in bed, just like when guys like to be in charge, sex-wise. And I don’t like being in charge, or dominant. But I do like being active, and pleasing!
Yeah it took me a long time to figure out that submissive is not passive. I fought my own sexuality because I thought it was lazy or not a grown woman kind of sexuality to want to be submissive or to be dominated. I’m egalitarian in the rest of my life, cooperation is the name of the game.
And I am not passive in bed, just like when guys like to be in charge, sex-wise. And I don’t like being in charge, or dominant. But I do like being active, and pleasing!
A power-bottom can really make you both work!