If you could be trained to cum without any genital stimulation, what would you like to be your trigger?

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  • RBWellsV23@lemmynsfw.com
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    7 days ago

    Once I came from being slapped in the face, but was already primed for it. It was surprising and made me laugh, and felt like an accomplishment of a sort.

    I think I value my natural response too much to want it trained, I don’t want to lose that, never try to control it.

  • RepressedLemmier@lemmynsfw.com
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    7 days ago

    I managed to cum once just by trusting like once, in a way where I stretched it hard. I’m not sure how, and can’t do it again. But I felt I needed to get rid of the pent up stuff fast, and didn’t want to deal with it proper.

  • HotCoupleSD1959@lemmynsfw.com
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    7 days ago

    👩: He’s already training me to cum on command, not without genital stimulation tho, it’s more like accelerating my orgasms while I’m already stimulated. Even so, if cumming on command whenever could be possible for me, I’d like to maintain my current trigger, which is him saying “cum for me”

  • FistingEnthusiast@lemmynsfw.com
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    7 days ago

    I get close with a good glass of wine…

    I’d like it to be combination of things, so it would be very deliberate

    I’d like it to happen when my fiancée gives me a certain look, with a certain phrase, and touches me in a certain way

    • Keepthoseeyeslockedonmine@kinkycats.orgOP
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      @FistingEnthusiast yes, I was thinking that a combination may be the best, especially if it were innocuous things that triggered it. Then it can be quite deliberate, just by layering two or three things that might be commonplace, but when combined have an impact that is anything but

      • FistingEnthusiast@lemmynsfw.com
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        7 days ago

        Sometimes when my fiancée cums, she grips my biceps so hard she leaves little bruises from her thumbs

        If I get a similar bruise from working or something, when I see it, I chub up

        Pavlov was right!