Granted, and all the answers I got in this post have been very valuable to me and I have learned a few things… whether you are hosting for personal or for business. Selfhosting is when you host it yourself rather than get SaaS or paying a sysadmin to do it for you. Either which or, you still learn a lot along the way.
VPS is not an option at the moment, as the amount of storage I need makes it prohibitively expensive. I have a 2TB WD Black drive with all the user files. My clients share very large files with me. Some of the art files alone can go into the 10s of GB for a set.
My mate has 1000mbps business fibre to his house. He is happy to do a RP for me, as this is the only way I can make this work.
We doing the server move this weekend. Holding thumbs it all goes well.