I mean, sometimes my wife has thrown something extra smelly in the garbage while cooking and wants me to take the quarter-full bag out so the house doesn’t reek.
I should absolutely be asked to take the trash out in that case, and she shouldn’t need a whole story for said request. She frequently does because that’s just her communication style. Lots of extras. Mucho frustrating for me.
But it’s probably just an example for illustration.
Not sure what instances your chosen communities live on, but lemmy is very much alive for me