Whelp, their deaths are on your hands now.

Not to rush into relationships. That we can choose who to have relationships with and what that looks like. We aren’t indebted to anybody for any reason whatsoever in terms of relationships, and they don’t have to look like what others expect or even what we expect unless we have had that discussion explicitly.

We also wish we knew we were many things to do with our identity earlier: Demi*, relationship anarchists, polyamorous, transgender and transspecies, plural etc.

We also wish we learned how to love ourselves, probably the most important one of all, but we’re just learning now.

*demisexual, demiromantic, demikinky, demisensual and demiaffectionate.

We’re ace-spec and find the concept of attraction difficult for most people, except if we have a strong emotional connection to them.

However we also find the deliniation between like and love difficult too, we don’t really understand the desire or ability to split feelings and what we’d like to do with a person based on a mere label such as ‘friend’ or ‘partner’. This is part of the reason we chose to identify as relationship anarchists and discuss explicitly with each person what they and us are okay with and do so ocassionally over time too.

We also, not based on attraction but societal values and ideas, don’t see any relationship we have with anyone or anymany automatically important or successful. For example ‘familial’ relationships, like any relationship, if the others connected to us wish to have such a relationship go well then they have to work at it as much as any relationship, regardless of label or assumed worthiness to a certain type of connection or things they are allowed or not allowed to say and/or do.

So yes, we can be ‘friends’ with anyone or anymany, but the label alone means very little.

Heck fucking yeah!

Sex work etc is not selling the body as no organs etc are usually collected.

Also sex work has existed before money. It is a legitimate form of work, nurturing, care and a vital function of society, it’s only ‘bad’ because of laws against it and cultural attitudes, people should have the right or not to choose to pursue it if that is what they wish, for whatever reason.

Also also, most people don’t make that much money from it, so it’s likely not always for that reason alone.

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We think they mean just crashing the USD, ignoring it and using something else. Stopping trade etc with it.

Another one bites the dust, may their stock prices crash and may their site become unused and taken down.

So, when are we getting the fediverse alternative to linkedin where we’ll be protected?

Yes.

Oh, it does? Strange, doesn’t for us, odd.

Yeah, the embeds are annoying, we agree.

Autoplay can be turned off in the settings.

Not usually, we like smelling as neutral as possible and find most perfumes and body sprays etc not very nice to our olfactory, we do use deodrant but that about it. Though we do have some rub on perfume which we put a little of on sometimes, but not often.

Plus we like body odor smell on others, heh, so we always wonder if others might like it on us too.

Lucy and Yak bras, well padded and thick, very comfortable and cute ioo. That or Tomboy X ones.

https://spreadthesign.com/

Learn finger spelling, then the signs for what, why, where, when, how and sign.

You can learn most things by asking sign language users “sign <fingerspell> what?” or something like that. Though if you want to learn signs from that site feel free. Just remember most sign languages use shorter sentences that cut a lot of words used in spoken languages out, and subject, verb, object etc order is different.

Sure! Us, we’re plural: https://morethanone.info/ https://pluralpedia.org/

Yeah, it’s disgusting how people expect certain bodies to be baby making factories. We’re sorry you’re treated that way.

Start learning sign language!

Very.

We understand your frustration. However, we would not say being a woman is a scam. We think instead it’s capitalism, the patriarchy and beauty standards etc that are the real scams.

We hope you can find nice people who appreciate you for you, not based on any of those things and find a way to block or ignore those ads because we agree they are really quite egregious.