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Cake day: June 12th, 2023

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  • What are you trying to achieve?

    Not showering? Or having some kind of support?

    Instead of focussing on just “I have autism this is hard,” why not look into what might help you, so you can give your mom a clearer idea of how to support you.

    For me, showering is so easy not to do at all. I have things built into my schedule which require it, though. Like massage (I feel obligated to be clean for that, and have a routine getting ready for massage). Also I’ve identified things that make me feel gross about being unclean, like when my hair is greasy, and that stays on my mind now once I notice it.

    Also if you’re still under 18 (or whatever the age of adulthood is there), a diagnosis is probably a good idea because there may be support available somewhere.




  • Came here for this.

    I’m partial to flax linen, even though it’s not quite as good sustainability-wise as hemp.

    It’s almost as absorbent and has similar anti microbial properties. But the main thing is it’s softer.

    Hemp does appear to soften up over time but it can’t match linen’s particular soft smooth suppleness in the short nor the long run.

    That said, the last decade or so “linen” is being made with factory processes using fibre ends instead of full strands. So it’s getting harder and harder to find real linen material that doesn’t break down in a couple years.

    They’re even weaving jersey (stretch) material from it which is ridiculous, and eschews many of the benefits of the material. -_-




  • In my early 20s, I was seeing a psychologist for depression. Because of issues with my mom, she thought it’d be a good idea to have an appointment with her involved.

    So my mom came to an appointment.

    And right after they met, it turns out they started meeting up personally to do some kind of craft project together.

    The psychologist did inform me and check if it was alright but I had no idea what to say. Trust broken and I just stopped making appointments.