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Cake day: September 13th, 2025

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  • I’ve had a growing curiosity but no partner who is interested. I like the idea of giving to the guy if he likes having his postsate stimulated. Sometimes I’m just in the mood for a subby guy and making his brain melt, and pegging sounds like a nice and subversive way to do it. I briefly mentioned the idea to a guy I’ve been sexting with and he politely said that butt stuff is totally outside his comfort zone, so the matter is rested. Not a dealbreaker, but wouldn’t mind a chance to try it at least to see if I like doing it if the right guy comes along.



  • Strap-ons don’t really do it for me. As far as post-op, I am not really up to speed on how advanced these are, and how well they replicate a “homegrown” set. Full disclosure, I’m Aroallo, so my physical tastes take a much higher priority than emotional attachment and commitment. I would be a way better platonic friend than a “girlfriend.”

    Provided that the operations are perfectly done, my only hangup might be some remnants of my heteromisogynist upbringing. Do I want to feel like an alluring feminine mystery to someone who was never socialized with the “girlhood” experience, rather than “been there, hated it?” Maybe, and ironically I think that’s more shallow of me than the genital compatibility.

    That’s a pity about Buck Angel. Haven’t heard of him before. Idk if it’s a self loathing mental health lashing out against your group thing (which I emphasize with, despite the clear harm) or a “pulling the ladder behind you” a la Blair White thing.















  • It looks to me like what they’re referring to is Michael Richards tirade being uncomparable to Jerry’s comments that were supporting the genocide. That’s how I read it, anyway.

    But I mean he (Richards) was talking about lynching the guy at the Laugh Factory, so even as far as racism goes, that’s pretty fucking up there.