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Cake day: September 21st, 2023

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  • We have the reverse. My boyfriend can clean the whole apartment and still leave it looking messy, whereas I only clean when absolutely necessary, but will keep stuff tidy.

    With my parents, I see that they try to be equal in the work, but my dad rarely comes up with stuff to do on his own, so my mom always has to ask for every chore. He came from a “traditional roles” family, so probably suffering the after effects from that.





  • What you are describing sounds like lateral raises. Not every arm exercise uses the same muscles and some muscles are stronger than others. Biceps are used mostly when you do curls, and those are very strong. For lateral raises you use you shoulders and they are weaker. So don’t feel bad if you have to start with a low weight (or even none) the first few weeks and progress less fast than with other exercises, thats completely normal.