ADHD is not a curse. Hell, it’s probably not even a bad thing it’s just that the world has been built for neuro”typical” people and, even though it doesn’t work for them either, it makes you feel bad.
You aren’t broken. All this other bullshit, on the other hand…
It’s not even that much “upkeep”, honestly, to the point I wouldn’t really consider it as such. But these things are attached to men, and despite being a man myself it is amazing how alienated from my own gender I feel whenever the topic of basic personal hygiene comes up. I’m Captain Man right up until I use a public washroom and the seat’s got piss on it and the dude’s walking out of there without washing his hands like bro.