Ada

@001100010010 I live in bone conducting headphones most of the day, but when I’m at home, it’s either my crappy TV speakers or dedicated over the ear headphones

@julian_schwinger You can upvote it :)

@hedge @leigh

@LSNLDN Yeah, it federated fine, but it’s a kbin post made to a kbin community, so I thought it worth mentioning that it doesn’t appear on the default tab of that community when viewed from kbin

@Roundcat

@koncertejo It does, but it’s not quite as convenient for the microblogging side of things. It can do them, but it’s more suited to following hashtags and topics from the rest of the fediverse than it is for following specific people

@patchw3rk I’m in the same boat! I created them before the migration, because they didn’t exist. But I don’t have the time or the desire to admin communities with hundreds of people. I hope this becomes easier at some point

@Roundcat FYI, it looks like you did this as a “post” rather than an “article”. Posts appear under the “microblog” tab in kbin and are grouped with content from Mastodon and other apps on the wider fediverse. Articles are what you want if you want the post to appear as a regular thread in a kbin/lemmy community

I mean, to me, it sounds like it was written by someone who doesn’t deal with marginalisation in any real way. No unique selling point? The fact I can exist here without being constantly harassed by bigots that have a green light from a mega social media platform that doesn’t give a shit about me is a pretty strong selling point. Strong enough that having experienced it, I will never return to a centralised social media platform that isn’t aggressively supportive of minority rights.

@minnieo I think the real question is how many people actually check who upvoted what?

@xray I wear pride gear, because my queerness often isn’t visible to people otherwise, and I want the other closeted and scared queer folk out there to know that they’re not alone. So I tell the world who I am loudly and proudly

@briongloid Not admins. Users should be able to do it.

As an admin, there is no way I can be across all of the niche subtleties and naming schemes of communities I’m not involved in. If I have to group them, I’m going to get it wrong.

If it’s going to sit anywhere above the individual level, it should be at the community mod level, not the instance admin level. But of course, many community mods aren’t going to want to actively point people at other larger communities that overlap with theirs.

@timbervale

@Matte I haven’t found that. I mean, luck is definitely involved of course, because it has dice, but with good preparation, you can mitigate the luck elements, and it becomes more a game of longer term planning than make or break based on a single roll.

That being said, Rallyman Dirt also has an interesting change that addresses part of that. The lead player rolls different white dice to the other players, with a slightly higher chance of failure. So being in first place for too long increases your risk, but giving up first place makes it hard to be certain you’ll get it back.

@ada

I always knew my gender was “wrong”. It was a workmate (and now close friend) transitioning that made me realise that my gender being “wrong” meant that I’m trans, and that transition was possible.

As for my orientation, that was a much longer and more confusing journey. It brought me so much more pain and uncertainty than my gender ever did. I’ve given up trying to find the right labels, but that’s more an admission of defeat than ownership of who I am.

As an instance admin, the instances that I block are explicitly ones that I don’t want my users to be able to subscribe to for any reason because they are full of bigotry and hate.

If I have a user that really wants to subscribe to a blocked instance, then chances are my instance is the wrong one for them.

@beto It might be a good idea to not do that thing that happened with Mastodon, where everyone thinks the Mastodon is the Fediverse. There is more to the #threadiverse than just lemmy!

tbh, there is no such instance. Not blocking any other instances is often a reason to be blocked by other instances.

An instance that blocks no one is in effect a “free” speech instance that prioritises the right to be bigoted over the need to provide safe spaces for folk. And that means that instances that value the need for safe spaces over “free” speech are going to block the instances that don’t block anyone else as a means of creating and maintaining that safe space.

Just like moving away from twitter

@Designate6361 We didn’t start the fire. It was always burning since the world’s been turning.

@nutomic

@Generator And just like Mastodon and the fediverse at large, after initial growing pains, we will find a way

@nutomic

@Kichae As I understand it, the proposal is basically just an interface thing at the user level. So a user can choose to display multiple technology groups from different instances together.

@Poot @bacteriostat @gun

@gun There is talk of allowing user to group multiple communities together in to a sort of virtual community.

@Poot @bacteriostat