• Fiona@discuss.tchncs.de
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    I haven’t even had bottom surgery yet, but thanks to HRT my metabolism is much more in line with that of a typical woman than that of a man. Meaning that it is much more accurate to refer to me as a biological woman than as a biological man. So saying I’m the later isn’t just insulting, it is even scientifically incorrect. A trans woman who has received bottom surgery is in fact for pretty much all intents and purposes the same as a cis woman who has received a radical hysterectomy. Unless you call that kind of cis woman a biological man, doing the same to the trans woman is just as nonsensical.

    And yes, this really affects pretty much everything: The treatment of things like brain tumors depends on biological sex and if you treat a trans woman like a man you are going to see the same bad outcomes that treating a cis woman like a man would have. Because again: Trans woman are (from a certain point in their transition onwards) biological women. Yes, it changes, get over it.

    The reason to talk about amab/afab is specifically because they are the only terms that are reasonably consistent in all edge cases, except clerical errors.

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      Amab and afab are equivalent to biological male or female, just less explicit I suppose.

      Would you still argue that you are more biologically female than male if you considered that your DNA in every bit of your body still has the male set of chromosome?

      I’m not arguing against you, more so arguing that the distinction doesnt much matter and could be argued either way. I’d rather just take someone’s word for it when they say who they are. Thats the whole point isnt it, acceptance?

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        Amab and afab are equivalent to biological male or female, just less explicit I suppose.

        That’s the point: They are not! Any sensible interpretation of a biological sex has to look at the whole system and we have comprehensively proven that biological sex can be changed. It’s a spectrum to begin with. Refusing that is like refusing that irrational numbers exist and claiming that every number can be written as a fraction: Understandable if you subject-matter education ends in 7th grade, but not if you actually looked into somewhat deeper at all.

        Would you still argue that you are more biologically female than male if you considered that your DNA in every bit of your body still has the male set of chromosome?

        For starters, define male set of chromosomes. If you say XY, then you will be interested to learn about De-la-Chapelle-Syndrom and Complete androgen insensitivity syndrome.

        But even if we put that aside, the thing is: Chromosomes really don’t matter all that much. The relevant differences primarily lie with organs and hormone-levels. Now, there are things you can do with gene-therapy (there was for example that trans girl who used CRISPR on herself to get her testicles to produce E instead of T). So it’s not that they don’t play any role at all anymore when you are an adult, but what matters much more is the overall metabolism and HRT is absolutely capable of switching that around.

        Like: Name the difference between a post-op transwoman and a cis woman who received a radical hysterectomy. Their metabolisms are functionally identical and both will have to substitute the same amount of Estradiol, because both lack ovaries. Chromosomes really don’t affect anything here, so insisting that they create a biological distinction, when they clearly don’t have any effect anymore is completely arbitrary.

        I’m not arguing against you, more so arguing that the distinction doesnt much matter and could be argued either way. I’d rather just take someone’s word for it when they say who they are. Thats the whole point isnt it, acceptance?

        The thing is: That is about accepting someone’s gender, which is usually indeed the more important thing.

        But biological sex of course also exists and the important thing for many of us is that it can in fact be changed and the claim that it can’t is deeply problematic and harmful.

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        Thats the whole point isnt it, acceptance?

        Right, and ‘biological sex’ is used as an exclusionary weapon that affects material policies.

        Would you still argue that you are more biologically female than male if you considered that your DNA in every bit of your body still has the male set of chromosome?

        There’s people assigned female at birth with those chromosomes. Are they ‘biologically male or female’? That’s a rhetorical question. The point is sex assigned at birth is a more accurate term for what is put on people’s birth certificates. Because sex assignment, and by proxy gender assignment, is based in sociology, not biology. And transphobes love using the argument from nature to justify real world policies and discrimination based on this sociological phenomenon.

        If you’re an ally, please listen to the folks living this and think critically about your own positions regarding these two terms. There’s a lot of excellent literature on the topic and right now more than ever we need solidarity, not more skepticism.

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          Just because someone is living this doesnt mean they have a full understanding of things. Skepticism is important, even more so from allies since they have the same goals.

          Just because a transphobe has said something doesnt mean someone else saying a similar thing has the same intent.

          I find it odd that this group thats trying so hard to stop being an out group, is one of the most aggressive at banning/labelling peolle and placing them into an out group.

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            Yeah, I think the person that called it hate speech in the beginning was stretching and that it wasn’t helpful.

            It’s far to commonly used, and much of society still thinks about gender and sex in the binary. But our society is also structured off these binaries and it causes issues for people who don’t neatly fit in the boxes.

            But what’s the this group shit? I’m part of that group and I have been assuming good faith and acting in good faith. Please don’t stereotype. And try to understand trans people are trying not to lose their healthcare and to have basic rights. Some of us are going to be more prickly than others.

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      There’s a lot of trans-medicalism in your post comrade.

      A trans woman is a woman, full stop.

      HRT and bottom surgery doesn’t define a person’s gender. Only affirm it.

      That said, I do like pointing out to transphobes that I have less testosterone and more estrogen than my afab girlfriend thanks to gender affirming care.

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        There’s a lot of trans-medicalism in your post comrade.

        Not really, no. I’m talking about biological sex, not gender.

        A trans woman is a woman, full stop.

        For non-medical and non-biological cases: Yes, and no one say disputes that.

        The thing is that there are some people who don’t believe that for the other cases. I’m pointing out that while it is indeed a bit more complicated and takes some work to fully get there, trans women can even medically/biologically be women.

        HRT and bottom surgery doesn’t define a person’s gender. Only affirm it.

        Indeed. They change the biological sex, which helps affirming gender.

        That said, I do like pointing out to transphobes that I have less testosterone and more estrogen than my afab girlfriend thanks to gender affirming care.

        Which makes you biologically a woman. I really think we should hammer that point home and not let people get away with it by limiting our criticism to the choice of words, when we are scientifically in the right.

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          That’s fair.

          I just know in my own journey I have asked myself am I woman enough if I keep the dick.

          Am I trans enough if I keep the dick. And the conclusion I came to is that if I have a cock or not I’m still a woman.

          But yes there are biological differences between myself who is on HRT and myself before hand.

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          Her and I already worked it out.

          Transmedicalism is an issue in the trans community. You can read her response, she didn’t call me daft. She just gently explained her position.

          And I responded with the hangups transmedicalism has personally caused me in my own transition. So that she would have a better understanding of where the comment you replied to was coming from.