I don’t have any issue talking to girls when the intent is not romantic/sexual. OK I have met someone, first few conversations went alright, how do I transition to something else without being embarrassed and feeling like a dick? Like, if I want to say something technical or communicate for something else, everything is fine. Otherwise, I feel very embarrassed and feel like I will be disgusting to her if I said something… I guess it is me trying to be OK with everyone and not have more people hate me… I don’t know if I can take any more people hating me… makes me feel worthless…

  • Nougat@fedia.io
    33·
    5 months ago

    I said exactly what I meant, nothing more, nothing less. Whatever you’re reading into that is on you.

    • pewter@lemmy.worldEnglish
      51·
      5 months ago

      You meant more. People are reading the words you wrote. In another comment you wrote “it’s better to just steer clear.”

      That’s not helpful for OP at all. That’s just the mgtow mantra.

      • Nougat@fedia.io
        21·
        5 months ago

        I refer you to the comment you replied to:

        I said exactly what I meant, nothing more, nothing less. Whatever you’re reading into that is on you.