I’m exploring some options to see if it’s viable to self host my email account. Currently I have:
- A home server that I can host the entire email stack but I cannot open the SMTP port there
- An AWS account where I can create a VM with SMTP ports open to the internet and reverse DNS support, also I have a domain and AWS SES configured and approved to send emails
Ideally I would want to send and receive from my home server, but that is not possible, so I’m exploring some alternatives:
For receiving emails:
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Cheap VM with postfix and my home server with dovecot, essentially forwarding all emails to my home server where I want them to be. I don’t know if this setup works tho.
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Keep everything in a VM, with the downside that I’ll need to do extra work there as it will have all my data. If possible I don’t want to go that route.
For sending emails:
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Sending from the same VM receiving emails, and have everything managed
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Use AWS SES to send emails in my behalf
Any input or opinion is appreciated. I’m currently exploring options, I haven’t made any decisions, so if you have a better alternative feel fee to share.
Thanks!
I think this is largely why people complain that email hosting is so difficult. It’s not the hosting, it’s that so many people are doing it with a cloud hosting providers IP space. AWS, Azure, and Digital Ocean all tend to have their IPs in at the very least grey lists. Many home ISPs DHCP scopes too.
Getting a proper static IP, your own subnet from ARIN, or finding a colo with their own IP space will give people much better results.
What would it take for a residence to get an ARIN subnet?