“b-but bears are actually dangerous!” Shut the hell up.

  • Rolder@reddthat.com
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    6 months ago

    I feel like with men it’s usually more physical and with women it’s more social/mental. And physical is way easier to document and make stats out of

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      6 months ago

      What are we comparing here? Cyberbullying to r*pe? Social exclusion to being thrown down the stairs? Not sure if you’re attempting to draw equivalences or minimize physical harm but that is how I read this

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        6 months ago

        Straight up… it seems like when I tell people that I’m scared of women they want to quantify it or somehow tell me I’m wrong for having the opinion I do it’s fucking hilarious… the same women who would shit on a man for being a man are the same women who couldn’t possibly believe that women are the problem for some folk.

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          6 months ago

          I haven’t said anything to you. I’m not telling anyone they’re wrong. It seems to me the bear discussion revolves around the fact that many if not most women are distrustful of men because of violence, misogyny, etc. Your subjective experience doesn’t change that, but neither is it invalid.