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      I mean, if its based on how that person identifies … Otherwise, I could maybe see it, but still leaning more towards: why not just ask?

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    I upvote and downvote for the silliest of reasons all the time. Don’t overthink everything. Not everything is a value statement.

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      Going into a community to downvote one of the most wholesome posts that community gets is very much something like a value statement.

      I get that a lot of people are looking at the unfiltered “all” feeds for their instances, but damn, it seems like few, if any, communities here are large enough for the outrage some of their content will attract from outsiders.

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    Eyo what.

    49 Partners??

    I think at this point its more F+ than a relationship. Which is cool, but where do you get the time to talk to all of them? Are they a full-time partner? Even then. This has to be bait. Ain’t no way u talking to 49 partners on the regular. Is the whole neighborhood in on this? What is happening.

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      They all live out in a camp they call “The Compound”, but Bobby has started stocking fuel and guns ever since the barbed topped fence got built.

      Apparently the title Prophet are being used for when they elect a new Speaker at the council

      Source: I made it all up

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    I feel like downvotes kinda make sense given that they said group has a lot of parents/children and siblings. I don’t even know if this is bait or not.

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      Yours is the first mention I’ve found of children as members in that community, and its an NSFW-allowed community, so I have no idea where you got that notion.

      That said, I would block any minor or minor-welcoming instance I became aware of on Lemmy. I’m not here to interact with that level of immaturity; I still regret not leaving facebook the moment they allowed teens(and grand-parents/boomers - yes it was an all-at-once change).

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        Not legal children, I meant children of other members of the community. Not overt pedophilia, just weird bordering incest that I understand people being averse to.

        https://lemmy.world/post/14925178

        They say they aren’t letting blood relatives have sex but I would still feel odd belonging to a relationship with my dad and sister where everyone is having sex with all of us.

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    I’m not sure if anyone could help with that. The best nicknames are specific to that person, so any suggestions wouldn’t make sense without knowing what type of person I’m naming. Just identify their vibe and find a word to describe it that isn’t already taken.

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    I mean they’ve got multiple blood relatives in the group. Seems way too close to incest for my and probably most other people’s tastes. Totally understandable why someone would downvote that, and I don’t think that warrants a block at all :\

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      Kudos to you on digging through their comments/post history. I see plenty of drama just looking at those that cross my path. From where I’m sitting, digging like so is just looking for the very things you claim to not want to see.

      Me? I would rather fool around with my wife’s sister than all that, and/or hang out with those who do such things. If you can’t see the line between that and actual incest, its you with the blurred boundary issue. That said, my wife has no siblings, and I don’t need the drama enough to be sad about it.