Hi!

I’m dating an amazing guy. He’s very sweet and caring. He’s kind of a quiet guy.

We started dating after a friend of his brought me a note he wanted to give me (but then threw away because he was indecisive) that said how much he loved me.

I took it and invited him over to my place. At first he was afraid to touch me and I took the initiative. Lately, he has become more active in this respect and is no longer afraid to just come up and hug me.

Everything would be very good, but I can’t understand one thing. Why does he always shake when we hug? I’ve asked him about it, but he keeps silent or blushes or says “I’m sorry”. I’m very worried about him and his health. Take him to doctor?

We’ve been together for 3 months. 2nd year of university. Same age.

    • NovaPrime@lemmy.mlEnglish
      234·
      10 months ago

      women can get experience anytime they want but not so with men…

      What in the incel talking point hell are you on mate? Can we not generalize an entire gender and paint their sexuality and sexual proclivities with such a broad brush?

      • SuperSpruce@lemmy.zipEnglish
        14·
        10 months ago

        It’s certainly not true among all people, but there is a sizable group of guys who Just. Can’t. Get. A. Girlfriend. No. Matter. What. There are certainly some girls in this boat, but because most guys are really horny, this group is smaller as announcing you want intimacy as a girl is nearly guaranteed to get you messages from horny guys.