• RadButNotAChad@lemmy.world
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    10 months ago

    I just want to say I don’t see why this is getting down voted, this is nostupidquestions, and on top of that, this one is interesting and I’m excited to see peoples insight.

    • Seigest@lemmy.ca
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      10 months ago

      Agreed, I’m new too the community but I am sure if OP asked this in autism@lemmy.world it would be just fine. Folks there are very kind.

      In my family we’d joke Star Trek was closer to our religion then any other nonsense. We’d at least have a ritual around gathering as a family to watch it. I’m the only diagnosed one but I assume my family is thick with Nerodivergency. Also I’m not even that into trek.

      When I was about 6 my older brother told me Santa didn’t exist and I was like “yhea that makes sense”. He also mentioned God didn’t exist and again and I reponded “well of course not”. At some point in my life the existence of Santa was more believable then the idea of God.

      Growing up I was exposed to so many differnt cultures, differnt Gods. I think they are all valid, it is important to be secular within reason. Honestly, I’ve been a part of enough nerdy Fandoms over the years to see the parallels. I’d no more insult the Christian God then I whould Picard.

      More to the question though it may have to donwith the whole sense of community and belonging thing.

      From my understanding churches are a pretty vulnerable experience, there’s signing (potentally loud singinging), confessing of sins, forced friendliness, and positive expressions, and higtened emotions. It seems incredibly socially draining. If I had to do that unto school I’d have had a considerably more breakdowns as a kid.

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      10 months ago

      That’s very common around here. Perhaps a lot of people misunderstood the community’s name, and they think that stupid questions aren’t allowed.

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    10 months ago

    Being autistic, it’s a lot easier for me to not believe in God than to believe in God and accept that he had a better reason for making me the way he did than merely being the sort of demiurge who drinks on the job and was having an off day at the moment of my conception.

    It’s also easier to not believe in God and chalk up my existence to bad luck than to accept that my conception was basically God’s malevolent joke on my parents since my mother was on the pill and my father was wearing a condom.

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    10 months ago

    In my experience, the frequent autistic aversion to superficial engagement tends to come out in religion, as does special interest tendencies.

    That is, you would be more likely to fall into taking religion Very Seriously or into rejecting it, than to just go along with it like most people do.

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    10 months ago

    Considering there’s very little logic, reason, or empirical information to be found in religion, I would say yes, it does. I would say that it affects the religious beliefs in such a way that there probably wouldn’t be much of any belief at all in the majority of us with ASD.

    Of course, this comes with the digression that I understand that I do not speak on behalf of all autistic people.

  • schmorp@slrpnk.net
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    10 months ago

    I’m autistic and animistic. I believe that there’s conscience in all, and that we should handle other beings like we handle other persons: with respect and some caution. I grew up catholic, tended towards buddhism for a while, was non-religious for the longest time, and then started taking to animals and plants and landscape - some might say I lost my mind, but it felt more like finding it. It’s a private practice of consciously having a stream of thought passing my mind as I meet other beings in my daily life, and trying to get to know them and notice them. A silent conversation with the non-human, I guess you could call it praying, only there’s no worship, as I’m also anarchist. I communicate with whoever is happy to meet me eye to eye.

    I’d say the whole thing is more pragmatic than religious. There’s no church, no celebrations, I’m not part of a group, I’m just a private nutter talking to rocks because it suits me and works to maintain my wellbeing.