I want to selfhost a messaging service for my family. It should be secure and have voice calling option, ideally. Thank you.

  • Elkan Nixed@programming.dev
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    1 year ago

    I’m on Signal (obviously not self hosted) and even if I really wanted to move to another platform be it self hosted or yet another privacy focussed one, I can’t ask my friends and family to move to another platform again. I already asked them to move away from WhatsApp, can’t do it again…

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      1 year ago

      I feel you. My problems with Signal forced me back to iMessage (actually forced me off of android and back to iOS).

      I’d never considered Self-hosted messaging. It might be fun to play around with, but I can’t handle the stress of ensuring six 9s uptime for family comms.

    • ancoraunamoka@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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      1 year ago

      This is what I told most of my friend when they asked me to move to signal. Is is going to be a very shitty company managed by a shitty egocentric person and you are going to regret. But you will make people move and they won’t do it again and won’t understand the reasons