• abbotsbury@lemmy.worldEnglish
    51·
    1 day ago

    there is nothing positive about having less autonomy and nothing about being a sub that requires it

    correct, fetishes aren’t often rational, there is no logical reason for this person to want to be a helpless little goblin other than it turns them on

    • Amnesigenic@lemmy.ml
      12·
      1 day ago

      There are plenty of things that turn people on that are objectively harmful and/or counterproductive and should be discouraged, in the grand scheme of things this isn’t one of the worst but that doesn’t make it good, some urges absolutely should be suppressed or at least redirected

      • abbotsbury@lemmy.worldEnglish
        21·
        24 hours ago

        There are plenty of things that turn people on that are objectively harmful and/or counterproductive and should be discouraged

        Not the parameters of the discussion at all

        some urges absolutely should be suppressed or at least redirected

        Sure, but extremely vanilla “uwu I want big man to help me” is nowhere close to that threshold.