Original question by @SourGrapez@piefed.social
I’ve been with a lady for two years and recently started dating her new boyfriend. We all consented to the relationship and so far, it’s going good. I’ve also heard from some people though who used to date many people that it didn’t work out so they decided to date monogamously.
I used to date my Dungeon Master (Dungeons and Dragons, not anything weird) and one of her friends she grew up with. The relationship was pretty brief, but she was really good at emphasizing communication between all of us. The breakup didn’t even really feel like a breakup.
A couple years ago, she died in a car wreck with one of the players in my group and even though we weren’t dating at the time, it made it harder for me to get back into the dating scene after the relationship I had around that time ended shortly after. I briefly got back with the other person I dated, but it wasn’t the same and they weren’t poly anymore.
If I was in a relationship right now and got over it better, I’d definitely be poly. It felt really normal.