• Amnesigenic@lemmy.ml
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    19 hours ago

    You don’t have a clue what his motives are or whether he’s being a pushy asshole or not, you have exactly the same information I do and you’re making baseless assumptions. If what you’re claiming is true then yes it would be a bad thing, fucking duh, but you don’t know that.

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      19 hours ago

      My boyfriend’s beige flag is that he gets impatient at restaurants and helps the waitress bring the plates to our table

      Yes, I do know that, because it’s explicitly stated.

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        15 hours ago

        Lol k, well she also used the word “help”, and he’s smiling in the pic so clearly he’s being nice about. You still lose.

        Also worth noting that I never said anything abour him being impatient, I said you didn’t know he was being a pushy asshole, and you don’t. Being impatient does not in any way require being rude.

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          13 hours ago

          And I’m sure she said this was a “beige flag” because he’s such a great, thoughtful guy. You’re being incredibly obtuse. This is a post about her boyfriend having sketchy behavior.

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            12 hours ago

            If she meant red flag she’d have said red flag, if he was angry or pushy you’d think it might show on his face, but thinking’s clearly not your thing. You’re free to make whatever assumptions you want, but they are still assumptions. There’s nothing “sketchy” about being impatient either, you’re reaching.