PowerfulTurtle@lemmy.ca to 196@lemmy.blahaj.zoneEnglish · 5 days agoWisdom Rulelemmy.caimagemessage-square38linkfedilinkarrow-up1281arrow-down130cross-posted to: 196@lemmy.blahaj.zone
arrow-up1251arrow-down1imageWisdom Rulelemmy.caPowerfulTurtle@lemmy.ca to 196@lemmy.blahaj.zoneEnglish · 5 days agomessage-square38linkfedilinkcross-posted to: 196@lemmy.blahaj.zone
minus-squareinfinitesunrise@slrpnk.netlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up49·5 days agoI mean calling someone gay when they identify as straight isn’t the most respectful thing to do, then again neither are the things I get the urge to do with a skinny little twink every now and then soooo
minus-squareBaumGeist@lemmy.mllinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up6·4 days ago“Identifying as” and “acting in a way that is best described by a certain adjective” are two different things
minus-squareinfinitesunrise@slrpnk.netlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up1·3 days agoThat is a good point, I guess what seems disrespectful about telling someone they’re gay is that it seems to ignore that distinction.
minus-squaregandalf_der_12te@lemmy.blahaj.zonelinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up10·5 days agosooo? i wanna know
I mean calling someone gay when they identify as straight isn’t the most respectful thing to do, then again neither are the things I get the urge to do with a skinny little twink every now and then soooo
“Identifying as” and “acting in a way that is best described by a certain adjective” are two different things
That is a good point, I guess what seems disrespectful about telling someone they’re gay is that it seems to ignore that distinction.
sooo? i wanna know