• psud@aussie.zone
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      It’s like hitting a wall and having the woman say “that hurts, please be more gentle” (hitting the cervix, entering it isn’t going to happen, penises aren’t that rigid or sharp)

      I recommend against positions that maximize penetration depth with women with shallower vaginas

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        I wouldnt dare to try, but i have been told how painful pap smears can be and that many women need painkillers to endure it at all. I cant imagine how painful it would be to stretch it open. And thats also why there is such a thing as too long.

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          I’ve had my uterus inflated with saline for a specific screening ultrasound. They inserted like maybe 10cc, 5 at a time, so not a lot of volume, and obviously it was liquid. I’ve never been pregnant or anything, and I’m not sure if that would make a difference, but that was the single most painful experience of my life. And I get migraines and have major back problems.

          So the thought of not only penetrating the cervix (which is bad enough) but then having something solid enter the uterus (the logical conclusion of penetrating the cervix)? Holy gods no.

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          Everyone says they want a huge Johnson but don’t consider how much of a mood killer “ouch! You’re hurting my cervix” every time you fuck can be