• 𝓔𝓶𝓶𝓲𝓮@lemm.ee
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    2 days ago

    Holy shit that was intense. How do you feel now?

    There are those CBD things I use when someone annoys me too much, can recommend. I advise also switching accounts during the next days to forget about this and not see notifications.

    Finally, distract yourself with something fun to recharge the online fight batteries. Couple of days and you will be as good as new, I guarantee

    My favourite choice is books but anything that sucks you in works

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          2 days ago

          counterpoint: if I don’t push my limits, how will I ever grow strong? really, not practicing self care is exactly the same as getting my 30 minutes a day run or fistful of spinach in. not that eating disorders are off the table. you know, if I really want to toughen up mentally.

          • 𝓔𝓶𝓶𝓲𝓮@lemm.ee
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            2 days ago

            Well yes but honestly I am not sure if toughening up is really what most people think it is and want it.

            It’s better to feel more than feel kinda empty from all the toughening. There is no value in suffering

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              2 days ago

              okay, but, counterpoint, what if I’m already in a living hell and want to see that as virtuous to feel something? huh? did you ever think of that?

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                    2 days ago

                    I wish, I would have all my dental stuff in check then and easy retirement

                    No I am just another hamster in this beautiful concrete paradise

                    Edit: guys do I really sound like a fucking fed? I wanted to comfort someone for once. I admit that I can’t feel shit because of all the toughening but logically it doesn’t seem that hard. eh well I hope they are okay more or less, stable