I have a close friend who’s partnership of 10 years (in their late 30s) ended partly because her partner spoke to a an absolutely hack therapist who told him that their love language was different (the therapist told him her’s was touch and verbal while his was acts of service cause he’d ask her if she needed anything from the shop), and rattled off some horse shit statistic about how 90% of relationships end hen the love languages arent the same, and they’re permanent (meaning your love language can’t change) so he left her.
100%. And people eat it up.
I have a close friend who’s partnership of 10 years (in their late 30s) ended partly because her partner spoke to a an absolutely hack therapist who told him that their love language was different (the therapist told him her’s was touch and verbal while his was acts of service cause he’d ask her if she needed anything from the shop), and rattled off some horse shit statistic about how 90% of relationships end hen the love languages arent the same, and they’re permanent (meaning your love language can’t change) so he left her.
she’s still utterly devastated 4 years later